please stop saying swagger

i really hate the word swagger.
partly because everyone is saying it.
partly because i'm fairly certain i don't have it.
and mostly because it promotes arrogance as something attractive, and i abhor arrogance.

"Some call it arrogant/I call it confident." -Beyonce
Sums up the general consensus pretty well.
...Except that I'm probably right, and the answer is arrogant.

In any case, i'm keeping my fingers crossed that fads are cyclical, and eventually self-deprecation will become sexy.